i read de book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" and i realised dis reflects so much in reality. haha.
When a woman asks "What's the matter?"
A man says: ..................A woman may respond:
"I'm OK" ........................."I know smth's wrong. What is it?"
"I'm fine." ......................"But you seem upset. Let's talk."
"It's nothing." .................."I want to help. I know smth is
When a woman asks "What's the matter?"
A man says: ..................A woman may respond:
"I'm OK" ........................."I know smth's wrong. What is it?"
"I'm fine." ......................"But you seem upset. Let's talk."
"It's nothing." .................."I want to help. I know smth is
..................................... bothering you. What is it?"
"I'm all right." ................. "Are you sure? I'm happy to help."
"It's no big deal." ............."But smth is upsetting you. I think we
......................................should talk."
"It's no problem." ............ "But it is a problem. I could help."
When a man makes de above remarks, he generally wants silent acceptance or space. At times like dis, women will tend to misinterpret and unknowingly respond in an intrusive and unsupportive manner.
maybe datz just simply MEN and WOMEN; we think differently, react differently and show our love differently. datz how arguments always spark off cuz of de different ways we express ourselves. itz not easy to maintain a relationship, yet many are willing to accept de differences and walk together, hand-in-hand. datz what they called 'de power of Love'. however, dere are some who went separate ways cuz of these differences too. well, it requires a lot of give-and-take in a relationship.
"I'm all right." ................. "Are you sure? I'm happy to help."
"It's no big deal." ............."But smth is upsetting you. I think we
......................................should talk."
"It's no problem." ............ "But it is a problem. I could help."
When a man makes de above remarks, he generally wants silent acceptance or space. At times like dis, women will tend to misinterpret and unknowingly respond in an intrusive and unsupportive manner.
maybe datz just simply MEN and WOMEN; we think differently, react differently and show our love differently. datz how arguments always spark off cuz of de different ways we express ourselves. itz not easy to maintain a relationship, yet many are willing to accept de differences and walk together, hand-in-hand. datz what they called 'de power of Love'. however, dere are some who went separate ways cuz of these differences too. well, it requires a lot of give-and-take in a relationship.
phrase of de day: "Love requires quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection."
